Do you have a relationship with God?  Or simply a religion with God?  Do you truly want to know God?  Or would you be satisfied with a "vending machine" sort of God, that you could control and operate?  

Genuine relationships go both ways.  Yes, we can go to God with our concerns and our heartaches, but to truly have a relationship with God -- a genuine relationship that goes both ways -- then, we will have to allow God to share His concerns and His heartaches with us as well.  And as God shares His heart with us, our world will be expanded.